I have realized that there is a time in everyone's life that you have to move on... move on from the crazy immaturity that follows you out of high school. I had a long time friend who you could have considered my best friend. Things have just really changed. I've found that there are bigger and more important things to focus on in life than getting drunk and hooking up with whatever comes your way. I feel like this friend has focused her life on this. I'm just not following along like that. I have a serious boyfriend and am avidly looking to "start" my life. I have gotten closer to friends who share the same values as I do. And to be honest, it's totally refreshing.
This friend and I have parted ways. The way she has handled herself in recent events is just really... crazy if you will. I have tried talking to her before about the way she handles herself in certain situations but I just feel she is stubborn and it goes in one ear and out the other. I honestly can't live my life hearing all the drama that comes along with her. I just can't do it. I have talked with friends and explained the situation(s) and they all say the same thing: It's time to move on from her. I can go throughout the day and not worry about the situation. I think this truly says something. It's not bothering me. I'm okay with out all this crap. And that's a good thing.
Have y'all ever been in a situation like this? How did you handle it? I am just to the point where we have nothing in common anymore. And it isn't all of a sudden that this is happening. It has been ongoing for several months. I just feel that it's time to get on with my life in ALL areas. Am I wrong? What are y'alls thoughts?
I hope y'all had a wonderful 4th of July. I spent my time out on the boat all day with one of my best girlfriends. Too much fun!! Have a wonderful rest of the week.
xoxo,
H
1 comment :
Sorry about your friend, have no clue who you are talking about, but you can only walk the horse to the water, can't make it take a sip.
I'm feeling the same way a lot lately about friends. I just don't have time anymore for the nonsense...literally don't have time for it. I think you do outgrown people and you ultimately will only be happy if you surround yourself with those who bring out the best in you and have similar interests as you.
Reading your blog tonight was crazy because I came home today and told P that a certain friend is just starting to get on my nerves with her immaturity. The things she says I just don't understand how someone can be my age and not want better things in her life. My tolerance for laziness is very low and having the wrong priorities.
Sometimes cutting ties is the best thing. A lot of times it ends ugly but ultimately it is just because you are either both changing or one of you has changed.
Hope that helps a little...I'm going through a similar situation...and Patrick DEFINITELY has a lot recently. A lot of guys aren't in the same stage at 23 years old so I can't imagine how he feels.
Love to you and B.
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